In todays busy world, many parents have lost the art of telling
their stories to their kids. Here are some reasons why these stories are so beneficial:
1. Use them to teach lessons about life.
Stories will stimulate conversations with your kids more effectively than
lecturing or trying to get them to talk. There are a lot of issues happening for
your kids these days, and stories give them a chance to reflect on them.
2. Stories connect your kids with
previous generations.
In a society that seems
to have families spread out all over, it's vitally important to have ways to have your
kids feel connected to their extended families.
3. Stories stimulate your
kids imagination.
One of the best ways to
prepare your kids for the world is to engage them in vivid stories that stir their
imagination. Kids who are exposed to these kinds of stories will be the creative
problem-solvers of the future.
4. Kids who are exposed to stories
will continue the tradition with their own families.
Knowing that your family
traditions and stories will be carried on by future generations is very comforting.
5. Stories can encourage your kids
when they're discouraged.
Childhood can get pretty
discouraging sometimes. Kids are encouraged by knowing that Mom or Dad have gone through
the same kinds of things and have survived.
6. Telling your stories has you
remembering your own childhood.
Telling your kids about
your childhood is a great way for you to remember and reflect on what was important about
your younger years.
7. Telling stories helps to create
depth and soul in your kids.
In a TV and media-crazy
culture, telling stories can capture your kids attention and convey real meaning.
Its a way to show your kids whats really important in your life.
8. Telling stories to your kids
tells them they're worth the time.
Is there anything more
important than conveying to your kids that you want to spend intimate time with them?
Theyll remember it forever.
9. Telling stories is a great
chance to convey your values.
Your kids will be
getting quite a few messages from their friends and from popular culture. Stories are a
great opportunity to sneak in a few of your cherished values for your kids to hear.
10. Well-crafted stories create a
wonderful mind-set for your kids before they fall asleep.
Kids will fall asleep
faster and with healthier images when you tell them your stories.
Don't pass up the
opportunity to connect with your kids at the same time you tell them what's important to
you.
It will be a huge gift
to your kids, and a huge gift to you.
Mark Brandenburg MA, CPCC, coaches men to be
better fathers and husbands. He is the author of 25 Secrets of Emotionally
Intelligent Fathers http://www.markbrandenburg.com/father.htm.
For a FREE class="SpellE">ecourse and a FREE bi-weekly newsletter for Dads,
go to http://www.markbrandenburg.com.
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